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Respite care at home

Respite care at home means a care worker takes over for a while so you can have a break from caring. Your parent stays at home with their own routines, and you get time to rest. We can match you with a CQC-registered agency near you.

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  • Free for families
  • No obligation
  • Takes about 2 minutes

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Respite care at home

What is respite care at home?

If you look after a parent, you need time off too. Respite care means a professional carer covers the care you would usually give, for a few hours, a few days or longer while you go away.

It can be visiting care, overnight care or a live-in carer, depending on how much you normally do. Because your parent stays in their own home, there is less upheaval than a short stay in a care home.

Some families book respite regularly, which also means your parent gets to know a carer who could help more in future. Others use it for a holiday, a family event or when the family carer is unwell.

A daughter relaxing with a cup of tea while her father chats with his carer

“A carer steps in at home so you can take a break, rest or go away.”

Hattie’s short version

What carers can help with

Every care plan is different. These are the things carers most often help with.

  • Follow your parent’s usual routines as closely as possible
  • Help with washing, dressing and using the toilet
  • Make meals and drinks the way your parent likes them
  • Prompt or help with medicines, as agreed in the care plan
  • Keep your parent company and do things they enjoy
  • Keep notes so you can see how things went while you were away
  • Contact you or the agency if anything changes
A family carer out on a countryside walk with a friend

Is it right for you?

Respite care at home can suit you if

  • You are the main carer and are feeling tired or run down
  • You have a holiday, hospital appointment or family event coming up
  • You want regular time off each week to rest or see friends
  • Your parent would be unsettled by a short stay somewhere new
  • You want to try out home care before arranging something longer

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How it’s arranged

What usually happens once an agency gets in touch.

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First steps

Get in touch with agencies as early as you can, especially for holidays. The agency will assess your parent and ask you what you normally do, so they understand the full picture.

02

Planning the care

It really helps to write down routines, medicines, likes and dislikes and who to call in an emergency. The agency will turn this into a care plan and arrange for the carer to meet your parent, ideally before you go.

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Once care begins

While you are away, the agency should check how things are going. When you get back, it is worth talking through how it went, as this makes the next break easier to arrange.

Costs and funding

What does respite care at home cost?

The cost of respite care depends on how long it lasts and how much care is needed each day. Our cost guide explains what affects the price, and the calculator helps you estimate it. Care may be paid for from savings or by the council after a needs and financial assessment, and family carers can also ask the council for a carer’s assessment.

A family and their carer chatting over tea around the kitchen table

Questions families ask

How far ahead should we book respite care?

As early as you can, especially around school holidays and Christmas. Some agencies can help at short notice, but it is not guaranteed.

Can I get help from the council as a carer?

You can ask the council for a carer’s assessment. It looks at the support you need, which may include help with breaks.

What should I tell the respite carer?

Share routines, medicines, food likes, how your parent communicates and who to call. A short written note makes the handover much easier.

Can respite be for just a few hours?

Yes. Some families use a few hours a week so they can rest, shop or see friends, while others book longer cover for a holiday.

What if my parent does not want a stranger at home?

Try a short visit or two before your break so they can meet the carer. Many people settle once the carer is a familiar face.

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